Women are beautiful, strong, and delicate creatures. It hurts my heart, my soul AND my loins that many of our girlfriends/woman/etc. have been led astray, bamboozled, duped and have fallen prey to one of the biggest scams in modern day history…The Infamous Relationship Timeline Ultimatum.
I feel that it is my duty to express some things that many “Smugger Gentlemen” want to say to their women. Some of us haven’t fully grasped what the issue is yet so hopefully this will help you gentlemen out a little.
A lot of women put time constraints on a relationship with the expectations that a man will “cave and wife her” based on a timeline she established for him…MISTAKE! Of course you have your dirt bag boyfriends and immature grownup boyfriends, but this observation is primarily intended for the mature to semi-mature boyfriend (insert definition here). In reality, a lot of women don’t realize that setting an artificial timeline/ultimatum for a man is a risky move that will only risk her having to start from scratch or at the least stagnate progression because of misguided focus. In reality, this may set her back a few more years.
SUGGESTION TO WOMEN: Put some serious time and effort into figuring out what you can do to make your man comfortable enough to move on to the next step. Men usually take the lead in terms of trying to please and impress a woman early on in the game and it sets precedence for failure sometimes. If woman focus more on “learning their man” aka what makes him tick, what he likes, what he doesn’t like, how to supplement his weaknesses, what makes him proud, etc…then they may have more success with this timeline thing. Think about this; if a woman claims to be ready for her man to make the “next step”, he apparently is satisfactory in her eyes…so why does he not feel the same? ANSWER: He may FEEL THE SAME, but she hasn’t put enough effort into showing him WHY he feels this way.
Men are not perfect (duh) but they are fully capable of knowing “a woman’s worth”… but you have to show us to make us believe you are “The Last Mohegan”. It is perfectly normal to have relationship expectations and life goals as woman, BUT don’t think a man will just marry you off default (unless he is a weirdo LoL).
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